The Choice and the Chance

When we meet the right person to love
when we're at the right place at the right time,

That's chance.

When you meet someone you're attractedto,
that's not a choice.

That's chance.

Being caught up in a moment
(and there's a lot of couples
who get together because of this)
is not a choice.

That's also a chance.

The difference is what happens
afterwards. When will you take that infatuation,
that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level?
That's when all sanity goes back,
you sit down and contemplate whether you want to
make this into
a concrete relationship
or
just a fling.

If you decide
to love a person, even with his
faults, that's not a chance.

That's choice.

When you choose to be with a person,
no matter what, that's choice.
Even if you know there are
many people out there who are more
attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate,
and yet,
you decide to love your mate just the same,

Thats Choice.

Infatuation, crushes, attraction
comes to us by chance.

But true love that lasts is truly a choice.

A choice that we make.

Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that
I believe is so true about this:

" Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen."

I do believe that soulmates do exist.
That there is truly someone made for you.

But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to
do something about it or not.

We may meet our soulmates by chance,
but loving and staying with our soul mates
is still a choice we have to make..