Sunday, December 31, 2006

New Year's eve!

Countdown!! To Welcome 2007!!!













Well everyone…. The 31st for me was great…. Me and my cousin Charlie woke up in the morning…went for our usual chicken rice and wan tan mee breakfast! Hahaha… yea it was great…well… let’s fast forward to the party…. Well wedding party to be exact…yes yes…my cousin was getting married on the 31st!! I know… its cool… and yes…his wife looks so sweet…. Well he still had his cool look on…

The wedding took place from 8.30 till 10.30…where I soon left….



Yea!! Its my routine to go there… enjoying the music lights and sounds….
I was sooo surprised to see my friends there…. One of them was a really really old friend named andy! Yes andy! I recognize him in the way he looked… but I’ve forgotten his name!!! damn I was embarrassed!! Because he knew mine… So sorry Andy….

Other than that was his cousin Jaymi… yes jaymi! Mgs… I know…and like all sayings go…the world is a very small place…. Without me knowing… her dad was actually my dad’s friend! I did not believe it but It was true…well she looked so different than the time I last saw her was like at...arr...arr... OH MY GOD... I DONT KNOW!!?!?!?

On my way into the restaurant a friend of mine was on her way out!! Yes Samantha… I’ve seen you… okie…sorry so sorry… I was doin my usual entrance looking at where I step i guess and yes… I mistakenly knock her…hahahaha damn the way she was dressed was like… wow….hahahaha… happy now??Hahaha….

But the biggest surprise was me seeing Lyndy!! Hahaha… hey lyn… I’ve got all your photos…even the one where u danced the Macarena! Hahaha hey macarena haik! Hahahaha….. it’s like sooo funny!!! Hahahah….

Kay everyone… my blog is having some little problems here and there… so I’ll do the regular okay? Haha
Photos all around!

ps: See the resemblances?

Thursday, December 28, 2006

23rd of December 2006

hey everyone... was.... yes it was the 23rd...
yes stop reminding me everyone.... i know what date it was...
well.. its my sister's registration this time...
the photos says it all.. the captions will not be added this time... okay?
hope you all enjoy the few photos i've taken... they are pretty romantic...

Well everyone... always do remember....
Love Certainly is always there....That is if you want it to be.....
Take Care of the ones you love...
Cause they are the one's for life...
Lost soul...

Monday, December 25, 2006

Prom Night - Christmas Stardust!

So Sorry that my blog is 100% not up to the timing...
Been busy these few days with planning for school projects and crap.... oh to hell with it!
It was the 22nd of December and my day started as everyone's day would (Yea right.....) i was in the office as usuall on every weekday...hehe... working my ass off to get paid...haha.... well then at the worst moment!
It ..... It..... was....
asking me....
Tommy: free ka?
Ben : What the hell u want....i'm busy now... call u back later....
After 10 minutes:-
Ben : (Pick up the phone !) what u want la....?
Tommy : Wei... want to go prom arr?
Ben : Malas la... somore no partner...
Tommy : Never mind la.... to hell with the partner thinggy...
Ben : I dont want to break record again la.... somore u know.... malaysian prom ler cannot compare to the ones i've been to....
Tommy : Got so many other flowers out there maybe u can meet some 1 new...
Go only la.... for our friend's sake la....
Ben : Who our friend?
Tommy : Aiyoo... Lyndy la.....
Ben : Fine fine... i talk about it later
(Phone slams down)
well in the end.... friends are friends and i always apreciate them...
so on my OWN free will i went to the prom...
Wore my usual unusual suit...hahaha....

Tommy and I... at my house Just before leaving!

I eyes are really like..small...hahaha....(effects of too much fun)

6TEEN? Michael's group! cool huh?

Lyndy and Me


Dance Performance!

Loo Sin and I

Me and Mervyn hiding from the camera!

Top : Koo, Me, Han Ern and Gary

Bottom : Mervyn , Wilson and Boon Yuan

The ACTING COOL THING is not me... just for the camera!

Well everyone... hope this post is pretty okie... not much time to type... got some things to do..

Next post on my sister's registration soon! hahaha

Take care everyone! Have a MERRY CHRISTMAS!


Saturday, December 23, 2006

16th of december!

Hey everyone
i actually thought that i've added this post but i ter click the "Save as Draft" button!
hahahaha hope you guys and girlz like the pictures...
That's Faith!
Isn't this picture nice?
Smack! OUCH!!
Faith: HMM...come on come on...strike after this...
Guess what came after this... SSSTTTTRRRIIIKKKEEE!!
us at star hill! hehehe....
Friends are always go treasure it!

Thursday, December 21, 2006

The Salty Coffee

Hey everyone...
i just found this post from one of my friends on the net...


He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffeewith him, she was surprised, but due tobeing polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please, letme go home.... suddenly he asked the waiter. "would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee."

Everybody stared at him, so strange!His face turned red,but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously; why you have this hobby? Hereplied: "when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I like playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Nowevery time I have the salty coffee, Ialways think of my childhood,think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there". While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.

That's his true feeling, from thebottom of his heart. A man who can tellout his home sickness, he must be a man who loves home,cares about home, has responsibility ofhome. Then she also started to speak, spoke about her far away hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk,also a beautiful beginning of their story.

They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm,careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee!

Then the story was just like every beautiful love story , the princess married to the prince, then they were living the happylife... And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it.

After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: "My dearest, please forgive me, forgive mywhole life lie. This was the only lie I said to you---the saltycoffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at thattime, actually I wanted somesugar, but I said salt It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead.I never thought that could be the start of our communication I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything.

Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste.. But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since Iknew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for mywhole life,even though I have to drink the salty coffee again".

Her tears made the letter totally wet.Someday, someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee?

It's sweet. She replied.

Love is not 2 forget but 2 forgive, not 2 c but 2 understand, not 2hear but 2 listen, not 2 let go but 2 Hold On…..

Don't ever leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.

To The Girls reading this :

Find a guy, who calls you beautiful instead of hot.
Who calls you back when you hang up on him.
Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead.
Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.
Who holds your hand in front of his friends.
Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.
Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, "..that's her."


Monday, December 18, 2006

The Triple A's of a Great Relationship!

The Triple A's of a Great Relationship!

Couples can lose the spark for every reason under the sun. They get too busy with work and etc etc...They forget the little things, like kisses and small thank you's. Most relationship splits don't come down to a dramatic, life-shattering problem. Rather, it's the gradual slip of each partner's behavior that does it.
I've got an easy formula that will put some life back into any lukewarm relationship. I call it The Three A's of Relationship Rescue:

1. The first ‘A' is for Appreciation. Both sexes benefit from getting back to the sweet adoration of early love. In those days it was effortless. You rocked each other's world without even trying to. Every gesture was met with the simplest of relationship life-preservers: gratitude. Ultimately, showing appreciation makes the other person feel seen and heard. You feel like you matter. In the workaday of chores, errands, bills and whose turn it is to take the dog out, appreciation can go right out the window. You're both so busy that you start to take what the other person is doing for granted. Take a step back and say ‘thank-you' more than you might. Think of something everyday that your partner did and thank him or her for it-even on the bad days! It will help you weather the storms of love.

2. The second ‘A' is for Attention. This one is more for the guys. Remember how much you used to court your partner in the beginning? Every date was an event. Every absence a tragedy. It helps to bring back some of that urgency and romance to what's going on now. If you haven't brought home flowers for no particular reason since the last Leap Year, please head directly to the florist. If you never call just to say I love you, pick up the phone. Women want to feel cared for and loved and cherished-and not just when you're trying to get "EHEM!" you know what i mean by ehem or make something up to her. Little gestures of seduction, with no expectations, will go a long way towards reigniting her attraction to you. Why not plan to do something nice every week? The more a woman feels that her partner is tuning into her emotionally, by helping with the kids or the house or doing something sweet,seriously it does help. Need any more reasons?

3. The last ‘A' is for Appearance. Ladies, do you remember how much effort you put into your looks at the beginning of your relationship? I'll bet that a day at the ballgame got more effort than your anniversary does these days! MOST Guys are practically visual creatures. Your hair, your body, your appearance is what caught his interest in the first place. As I like to say, if you've let yourself go, your partner may still love you, but he's not going to lust you AND SERIOUSLY! lust is important. And sorry, but kids and cooking dinner and all of that other stuff is not an excuse for looking disheveled on a regular basis. Your appearance needs to once again become a priority! In fact, when you keep yourself looking good on a daily basis, it becomes a habit. Don't reserve looking nice for a special occasion. It sends the message that you only care in a way that's strategic, designed to appease him rather than prioritize a fundamental part of his attraction to you. It will also make you feel better about yourself to stop making excuses. Eat right, put on a little mascara and lip gloss, and BEAUTIFY YOURSELF!

And GUYS! don't get off the hook here. While the visual is not quite as important to women, generally speaking, no one wants a slovenly partner. Beer guts, untended nose hair, and clothing from the mid-90s are serious offenses! If you expect her to look good, please do the same.
Ultimately, a healthy relationship is what's going to drive your passion for each other, which is what's going to rev the engine of a healthy relationship!

hOpE this is something good for all of you!
i modified it from the original!


ps: Grab!

Sunday, December 17, 2006

My Christmas Tree!

Hey everyone... just need alittle favor ...

if any of you are free to drop a message on my little online christmas tree please do! k
hehe.. Thanks so much!

-Ben -

Vegas Here i go!

Hey everyone this are the place's i visited in vegas!!
New York New York!
Being in Vegas Brings you all over the world!
Treasure Island
Caesar's Palace
arrr!! sand storm...oh well!! Return of the SIRENS!
d first hotel i stayed in vegas!
d most expensive hotel!!
if ur carrying at least $ 500 it aint enough to shop in there so bugger off!! hahaha
mmmmm yummy.... fries! Greatest thing America has brought to the world!

Universal Studios - Hollywood!

Mom and I ! Guess who's d fake one?

Sweet isn't it?

Well one excelator is done.. 3 to go...


Fuyoh! Jaws!

Deathmobile! looks like some sewage dump thinggy

King Kong!

Check out the Modd!

Its always there....

know it Love it!