Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Giggles Of a PSYCHO DRIVER! well that's what they call me ...hahahaha

Hey everyone…

Well I’m here to update ya on my little trip to Melaka… =3

It was pretty fun as I was attending Steph’s Sister’s wedding

But well… I can’t really explain much on my blog… don’t really have the time..

So the pictures would do most of the work.. okay?

=3

Hahaha

Stephie and Ke Xin =3=)



Sandra,Jac, and Stephie =3

And Well... on the way back.. =3 hehe..


Jin jin
Me !
Stephie!
*snores!*

Thursday, October 18, 2007

How open are you with your beloved?

Hey everyone! hahahaha
sorry for posting late...
i'm in my study mode...
and well... sometimes there're fun between here and there....

-laughs-

well before i start off my topic of today...
i'm going to just say...

EVERYONE! I GOT A CHATBOX THERE!
stop sending comment topic to my email... its alittle too full...hahahaha... just say it out at the chatbox so everyone got an opinion... =3

so well...

today's topic...

How open are you with your beloved?


I have read it at many places that why tell your beloved about your past? That may spoil your present. Let me present my thoughts to this. If we are not totally honest and open with our beloved, that means we are not sure about our relationship. That means that we do not have confidence in each other. That means that the relationship is fragile.

Why talk about such relationship, which is still fragile. Such a relationship will break for some or other reason.

A strong relationship can take any storm.

In a strong relationship, we are ready for some disagreement but know that ultimately things will be same as before.

It is like a child who has got totally scolded. Mother may scold the child but it will be same as before within half an hour. As like nothing has ever happened. That is a strong relationship.

If you hide vital facts about your past from your sweetheart, you will always suffer from the guilt and worry about hat if he/she gets to know about that. That is not a happy Relationship. Such relationships cause stress, rather than giving any pleasure. To get pleasure, have confidence, tell your partner everything about your past, and expect that they will not only understand but also comfort you about that. That is the sign of a open and strong relationship.

Any relationship that is not fully honest and open is like a leaking boat. Anytime water may get filled and the boat may sink.

Go out there and do what's right!

-BeN-

Friday, October 05, 2007

Tag tAg taG TAG!? =3

Rules:
1. The tag victim has to come up with 8 different points about his/her perfect lover.
2. Have to mention the gender of his/her perfect lover.
3. Tag eight other victims to join this game and leave a comment on their blog.
4. If you are tagged the second time, there is NO need to do this again.
5. Lastly, and most importantly, HAVE FUN DOING IT


HAHA =3
WELL... TAG again.. =3 this time by 3 people! okay... sorry for posting okay?
well to those who wanna know the 3 people whom tagged me are Stephanie.. =3
Jia Chyi and also Michael =3

so... let me see...
the gender of my perfect lover is obviously a girl... coz ...i'm just arr... not gay?
not in that happy kinda way... but u all get the idea...

anyway here goes... =3


*~ she must be sweet to everyone… especially me =3

*~ Appearance isn’t really a biggie but of cause there’s the occasional dress-up thing where she should be presentable… especially to d parents =3 –giggles-

*~ she has to be really fun to be with (laughs a lot!)

*~ She must really love being with kids!

*~ someone who is really caring =3 who cares about everything you do… =3 where ever you go too! =D

*~ someone understanding , she’s gotta understand what I feel at times..

*~ She must be cute cuddly but I’m not talking about some teddy bear okay? Hahaha! Just someone nice to hug =3

*~ someone who’s not too picky at things XD just being simple and easy wherever we go =3

*~ Finally , She’s got to love me for who I am… not what I am… to give the love she has so that I could give all of mine to her… =3

So... now i tag ..

1. Soh Yew Chong

2. Lyndy

3. Jin Rui

=3


-BeN-