Happy Birthday 2 Me =D Xd

*the girl who made my birthday a remembered one...*

*Me cutting the chicken*

Hey everyone!! hahaha..
yup yup my birthday just ended!

and i'm 18!! *screams in joy*

yup do u know what that means!!
it means no more :-

BOY AH... i got to check ur IC b4 enter da movie..

coz now i can go... nahhhhhhh.... in ur face!!!
muahahahaha!!!

well..
what other better way then spending my birthday with my darling.. =3
who could ask for more? =)

after college on a friday.. i headed off to stephie's house

*giggles*

i have totally foiled her secret plans!! -cuddles-
don't worry stephie.. i loved what you done =3



anyway.. we made spaghetti for lunch and it was actually really nice!!
aside from the fact that the noodles were not cooked long enough..
ps: it was the 1st time making spaghetti.. =3
hahahahaha =3
*looks away*

oh well.. we headed off to the Gardens Midvalley after that to do what we love to do..
window shopping...
but as always.. when ur having fun.. time just flies by.. eek..

and there are quite a few ppl giving us the stares as we were going snap snap.. =3

i can bet darling stephie is portraying me as her little tamagochi!
maybe a human edition ..
coz when i got hungry i looked sleepy..

there are plenty of other emotions but i think i'll keep that to my self...

i did some simple shopping
and future planning on things we would get soon.. =3

when the clock struck 9.30

i drove back to Sg long's Secret Recipe =3
for a piece of my birthday cake =3

sometimes i wonder...
when i get older?
my age goes up...
does it mean my weight would go up too?
hahahaha

anyway here are all the pictures..

btw THANKS EVERYONE WHO WISHED ME HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

~here you are =D~

Stephie Darling =3

Melvin (my brother)

Cher Lynn (my sister)

Sandra

Kristine

Jia Chyi

Deneice

Faith Chew

Wendy ( da College Buddy too )

Jia Hao ( da college buddy too )

Vinod ( my oldest lost buddy! )

Kenneth

Tanya

Michael

Carmen

Abdullah (not the Prime Minister hahaha =3)

Jin Rui

Lyndy

Cheng Lee

Kelly

Uncle George

Kok Hooi

Hui Sie

Iggy Goh

Manimaran

Trachia

Josh

Alexander Sia

Simon Tee

Jay Kuok

Elaine

Susan Teh

Natalie

Sarah

Ju-Wen ( same Birthday as me! Haha )

Rohaan

Kelly

Qing Qing

Kylie

Vickey

Wai Chun (Ham)

Wai Yin

Khye Theng

Jimmy

Christopher Ho

Ai Ling

Desmond

Soya

Simon Looi (nz boy)

Danny

Tee Kian Peng

Jo Lynn

Fang Yen

Khai Wynn

Michelle

Katheryn kong

Andrew

Su Leng

Paulina

Tiffany

Andrew

Andrew Tan

Carlos Mochiago

Amy Ong

Ps: there’s more! I’ll update when I can!

Take care everyone!

-BeN-

*my birthday prezzie from stephie =3*


*little milo (stephie's dog)*
*us at the Gardens**=3*
*smiles*
*cheese*
isn't these great photos =3

=3 its soo soothing..
=D & =)
*if you all readers did notice.. stephie and i have the same smile =3
*i know i know... excessive posing by us *
=)
*the girl who made my birthday a remembered one...*

=)
*and yes ppl.. i've put on alot of weight.. but oh well.. she doesn't mind*

*cake!**starring at the cake*
*slurppp*
*=3 sweetness*

*sleepyness -giggles-*

~ My Little Trip To Genting =3 ~

Hey guys & girls =3

Well.. this post is about my little trip to genting ! =D

Lets start! Woohooo…

=3

It was a Friday… I was in college wondering about the trip that would take place later in the day.. J

It was an extremely exciting as on that very day..

Just a little summary of what had occurred !

- mom’s car broke down

- I misplaced my money

- It was maybe the 1^st time I was lost about what’s going on in the class lab

- I went for lunch with dad!

Well after class at college…

I took a quick drive down to meet steph up at her house =3

And well.. I was honestly really tired… and for the time that I was there in her house I practically spent most of my time completing some assignments…

Oh well.. lets fast-forward a little to where we start about the journey to genting..hahaha

We got into stephie’s brother in-law’s car and drove alittle while… after passing leisure mall…

I went into a deep coma…. As in.. dead sleep for 3 hours!! Hahaha

And yes… yes…

I found out from stephie that I was like a really fat pig… u know.. just snoring all the way…

ahahahaha =3

Go to Stephie’s blog to hear her part of the story!

-giggles- hahaha!

its much more funnier as I don’t remember anything!!! (sleeping throught the whole journey)

I finally woke up after the total destruction of the highways

Hahaha

-giggles-

Believe me… everyone went through stress and suffering

and I woke up like 2 minutes before the end of the traffic jam!

Hahaha

Stephie then told me that I slept through a 3 hour jam!

I went 0_0 *serious?*

Anyway Gan (stephie’s bro in-law) started releasing his stress about the road and sped up all the way into the mountains!

We stopped at Gotong Jaya to have supper… it was say.. 12 am?

Gan was looking all pissed and in pressure when we exit the car..

But after having

a packet of nasi lemak,

a teh tarik

and 2 set of roti bakar..

He was smiling like a child again!

Hahahaha

Anyway genting was really great… =3

and as usual we took lots and lots of photos! Hahaha

Take care everyone!

-BeN-

*bacon ben*

* XP *

*It's Falling*

=3

=D

*Stephie and her dad*

The bag was replacing me *sobs*

*the garden*

*stephie : sayang's benji*

=3

cheese =3 mmm =3 yummy

white effect =3

scary smiles =D

SOBBERS.. =)

strawberry =3*plop*

*kish kish*

fishy =3 hahaha!

our happy smiles =)

Results are out... =/

Tensions are hot….

Ppl tearing….
And
The crowd goes silent….
That was the feeling’s that thundered in my wonderful ex school….hahahahahahaha

Yeap ppl..
It was result collection day!

I arrived at school a little early… about 15 minutes to be exact…
Met up with a lot of friends…
And well that cameras started clicking and stuff…

And imagine.. only 4 months passed only…
ONLY!!!

One of my friend dressed up like a chinaman… and one even came looking all dark and gloomy (gothic!)

Well at 10.30 our teachers walked down the stairs on their hands held stacks of paper…
Where only one little slip from them ever matter…

It was like those movies where the enemy makes their entrance!

It reminds me! Star Wars!

Darth Vader theme x 2
Hahaha

=3
Well everyone became pale.. and some just went all red..

By the moment

the techers sat at their respective tables!

The students charged into them with sounds like

“ME FIRST”

“arrrrrrr!!!!”

“waaaaa”

“10 A1’s for me please”

Well those comments…. Didn’t last for long tho….

For me…
Tears came down… like rain….
Inside that is…

I knew I could do much better like my trials… but oh well…
I’m still satisfied…

Hope all of you out there would be too..

Enjoy life everyone!

-BeN-

Ps: ask me if u wanna know my results =3

*William , Me , Marcus & Ken*

i know... i know... i've put on weight! hahahaha...

The Thrills!!!

Hey Everyone... =3

As my wonderful college life starts to unfold!!

Here comes…..

-_-

Result day… yay!!!

~My ass….~

Anyway… if u could only see it to believe it…

Before notification of SPM exam results :

Guy 1 : hey lets go mamak after this…
Guy 2 : yes! Then we go party!
Girl 1 : no need to study wan arr?
Guy 1 and 2 : study!? Haha… no worry la… still got a lot of time,,,

*and all 3 of them headed off having fun*

After notification of SPM exam results :

Guy 1 : -_-“
Guy 2 : -_-“
Girl 1 : -_-“

Hahahahah… see the difference… but well…
Rumours started spreading around…
Saying ..

AWWW SHEEETT…. BN loose… our result fk d la!!....

Or

Damn….. *sarcasticly*

Or even

Sejarah die d… *dies*

Well everyone… I’m here just to tell you all… to not worry …

Honesty…
Your results wont effect you that much…

Just as you are before .. just be confident…
As what we just went through (SPM) is just one of many stepping stones in life…

As I said before… just live it as it is…. =3

Any btw peeps….

Our result grade has been set before the examinations upon reviewing last years grade… and finally… the marks for this year would also be altered to have a 70% pass rate for the whole country…. Hahaha

So don’t worry yourself too much….

So good luck to everyone

And to my old La Sallian friends!

See ya at school soon!! Hahahaha see ya!!! =3

-BeN-

~ Survey! ~

*this was my brain waves before i started class!*

Hey everyone!!
well i just got bored so i thought why not do a survey! =P

1. Do you like chinese food?
-Yup 100%! =3

2. How big is your bed?
-Big Enough For Myself and Another -Giggles- =3

3. Is your room clean? -
-Giggles- Yup!! it "Looks" clean.. wait till you mop it...hahaha! *dust museum*

4. Laptop or Desktop computer?
- hmmm? both? i guess =3

5. Favorite comedian?
- ah! erm erm? hmmm plenty! the famous ones are like Russel Peters

7. Does anyone like you?
- hmmm.. i don't know? go ask around? *begs please like me* (puppy dog eyes) haha

8. Whats the sexiest thing about Condoleeza Rice?
- she's sexy? huh? *ben drops to the floor and goes into a coma*

*number 9 is missing*

10. Sleep with or without clothes on?
- hahaha.. with... a boxer!!! hahahaha

11. Who sleeps with you every night?
- who? my pillow.. =3

12. Do long distance relationships work?
- yeap.. just as long as you believe =)

13. How many times have you been pulled over by the police?
- 7 times beat that!!
~ 1 for speeding
~ 3 for being suspicious
~ 1 for being suspected as a drug trafficker
~ 1 for being suspected as an underage driver
~ 1 for speeding when i did not speed!! (was driving at 60km/h)

14. Pancakes or French Toast?
- WAFFLE!! YAH!!

15. Do you like coffee?
- with mocha please =3

16. How do you like your eggs?
- =3 cooked!! hahaha

17. Do you believe in astrology?
- read them for the fun of it.. =3

18. Last person you talked to on the phone?
- stephie =3

19. Last person on your missed call list?
- eek.. dad... reminds me i've gotta call back!

*runs off to the phone*

*after 10 minutes*

20. What was the last text message you received?
- okay, i love you =3

21. McDonalds or Burger King?
- both please? =3

22. Number of pillows?
- 2 =D

23. Last thing you ate?
- hmmmm... almonds! =P

24. Last thing you bought?
- Reload for my touch'n'go card

25. What are you hearing right now?
- The computer's fan swirling.. =3

26. Pick a lyric?
- *woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo*

27. What kind of jelly do you like on your PB & J sandwich?
- arrr? hmmm grape jelly! *runs off to the kitchen*

28. Can you play pool?
- Yeah , and i play better when i'm totally blur.

29. Do you know how to swim?
- yeap!! =3

30. Favorite ice cream?
- chocolate *drooling* and also rummy rasin *double drools*

31. Do you like maps?
- hahaha who in the world like maps? hahaha... well maybe some ppl do.. *weird*

32. Tell me a random fact:
- I only post 2% of the pictures taken on my blog =3

33. Ever had a hard on at work?
- ? what.. isn't that a sexual question? *whistle*

34. Ever attend a theme party?
- yeap , it was italian...

35. Ever do a keg stand?
- hahaha nope.. its insane!

36. Craziest place you've slept after a night of drinking?
- hahaha speaking of crazy.. my room's floor...hahahaha.... it was ages ago...hahahaha

37. What is your favorite season?
- Winter! more reason's for stephie to give hugs! hahaha =3

38. What is the first music video you ever saw?
- erm erm... i don't remember..

39. Pick a movie quote:
- dude, where's my car?

40. Favorite quote:
- Sometimes Believing is all You Got..

41. What is your favorite hangout?
- anywhere =3

42. Best friend's name?
- a lot of close friends =3

43. How long have you known them?
- urhhhh... primary & secondary school =)

44. Last time you laughed at something stupid?
- today on the way back from college a guy laughed till he cried... then i started laughing too..hahaha!

45. What time did you wake up this morning?
- 5 am

46. Wake up next to anyone?
- nope.. but i wish i could..-giggles-

47. Best thing about winter?
- snow , cool breeze and hugs!!!

48. Name a couple of favorite colors:
- everything is fine with me!

49. How old are you?
- 17 going 18 !

50. What month is your birthday in?
- March =3

51. Do you think pirates are cool or overrated?
- ? no comment...

52. Favorite Dave Matthews Band song (if you have one?)
- who's dave matthew?

53. What are you doing this weekend?
- study!!!! test!!

*this is my brain waves after class..*

Can You Survive After a Break Up?

Can You Survive After a Break Up?

Hey everyone.. well this is a request in my email.

And well I thought of it for awhile just to classify it into an easier way to explain the topic to all of ya.

Well,

Surviving after a break-up is tough.

Speaking about relationships,

relationships connect us in this world with each other.

We have many kinds of relationships-parental, sibling,friends, professional and love.

We go through many phases in all these relationships.

Ups and downs are part of our life and our relationships.

Most of us can bear break down in most of the above relationships except those of love.

But have any of you wondered Why?!?

Who will survive a breakdown in love relationship and how?

Confusing isn’t it?

Well okay there was a day where I had a convo with my friend at college. I’ll not tell the name here.. but well lets put the person’s name as “A”

I was speaking to A whom will be breaking up soon.

The statement went something like this were A said :-

I did everything possible to save our relationship.

I gave in a lot, but I could not save.

We will be breaking-up soon.

That has already broken my heart.

This relationship was made brick by brick over so many years.

What we (A and the partner) did not do to make it last?

But alas, we are breaking up.

So I asked A…- how to you propose to go on in life now?

There was no answer except a blank stare.

This happens to most of us while most of you would say

“don’t worry lah it okay wan la”

but is that what you are really answering?

Do you really mean it?

Well everyone.. lets look at the obvious.
The immediate effect of the break-up is pain.

The pain goes away slowly over a number of years

(that is if your feelings are very strong and humane),

but the initial impact is high.

It is the initial period during which you have to toughen yourself up to learn to tolerate the pain.

The second effect is bitterness and blame.

There is always thoughts about the past…

Arguments you had , fights , fun , and about everything that has passed.

This would a large amount of self-talk about how did it end…

These are the kind of things that you should try not to get yourself into..

Get your mind off things.. spend quality time with close friends, go to the amusement park!

Get a new hobby!

This may sound weird but get a new life…. A new lifestyle that is… =3

Do anything in your own will to keep yourself busy always.

But always remember..

A breakup is a process that everyone in the world would feel either good or bad..

Its just that small stepping stone towards that very “one” perfect person for you.

Take Care peeps..

-BeN-

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