Survey

hey everyone... thanks for checking in every time...
but just sorry for not updating... i'm still trying to get used to the new lifestyle i have...
and i'm guessing alot of ppl are also following suit after SPM!!! HAHAHAHA
OHHHH YEA~~~

ENJOY THE POST EVERYONE!

Name 10 people you can think of
right off the top of your head.

1. Stephanie Lee
2. Koo Wern Jhin
3. Goh Aik Sein
4. Sandra Lee
5. Deniece Koo
6. Josh Harry
7. Jia Chyi
8. Sonia Chin
9. Joshua Ying
10. Lyndy

1.HOW DID U MEET NUMBER 3?
~* Ah… Gregory… well hmmm met him back at standard 1 and well our size to age ratio remain the same till we were form 5…haha… still small…hahaha

2 . What would you do if 2 and 6 were
going out?
~* hahahah tom and josh.?! Haha… oh well… I don’t suppose they’re gay… but well… guess they’ll be fine… hahaha

3 . How long have you known number 8?
~* sonia… actually quite long… didn’t really start chatting till we were like form 4? Then its an off an on thing… chat when we can…haahaha

4 . What do you think of number 7?
~* simple talkative girl…hahaha

Always confused with the blur look

5 . What would you do if 4 confessed
he/she loved you?
~* hahaha~..arr…arr… sorry la…. I’m in love with ur sister?

Hehehe =3 it won’t happen….

6 . Whose 5 going out with?
~* hahaha… I doubt she’s “going out” when she would be at home being all active! Hahahaha she’s going out with josh harry….hahahaha

7. What does 1 do for a living?
~* She’s studying, and well she spends most of her time being caring bout me.. =P

8. Would you live with 4?
~* hahaha… I don’t mind… BUT! Depends on her sister…hahahah!

9. Where does 10 live?
~* hahah… some where in klang where its so near my teachers house..and also quite near my school I guess…

10 . What do you like about 1?
~* I love every single thing bout her…. She’s what u can call perfect to me.. =3

-hugs-

11 . Does number 2 like to dance?
~* hehehe… I’ve got no idea… heard him talking about taking up hip hop..hahaha…

1 2. Does 8 sleep with a stuffed
animal?

Arr… hmmmm I don’t think so… not stuffed la… but I think she has her little doggy next to her… if I’m correct?

13 . What is your opinion of number 9?
~* hahaha… my cousin which is close to me compared to others… hahaha…

14. Would you ever get drunk with
number 2?
~* yeahhh! Hahaha… but most probably he’ll pull me out of the drinks and send me home…hahahah

15 . What would you do if 1 and 5 were
going out?
~* I won’t do anything..hahaha.. just to watch all the “topics” they talk about..hahaha!

1 6 . Ever gone somewhere with 10?
~* hahaha.. lyn? Alone… no… but meet each other a lot when the interact club was still on….haha… oh well… the clubs quiet…

17 . Would you ever go out with 6?
~* yeahhh! Hahaha

He’s pretty cool!

18. Have you ever slept over at 7's
house?
~* nuuuu……

19. Have you ever kissed 1?
~* maybe~ =P (follow’s stephie’s answer)

20 . Does 5 play a sport?
~* hahaha… if u count “u know what I mean” as a sport… then yes…hahahaha!

21 . How did you know 2??
~* ah… form 1 friend.. probet’s…then wacky…

22 . Did you know 6 secrets??
~* plenty! ahahaha

23. What is 8 scared of ??
~* Kids?

24. What's 3 dreams?
~* to own a super computer and never work for his entire life!?

25 . Which number you always want to go
out with?
~* aww.. this question is evil… but well… 1,2,4 hahaha… honestly… but if I could I’ll go out with everyone…hahaha

26 . Who's 10 to you??
~* old childhood friend

27 . Ever fight with 1?
~* not really~

28. What if 7 said he/she likes you ??
~* arrr…arrr….*no comment?* sorry…

29 . What's 4 fav drinks ??
~* Chocolate milk, hot chocolate , melted chocolate , anything with chocolate? And also chocolate juice if it existed! Teehee… =3

30 . Do you love 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9 and
10??
~* diff kinda love, tats for sure. =D (agrees with stephie)

Tag!

HeY eVeRyoNe!!

WELL.....
i've got tagged again.. =3
by stephie... hehe...
so here it goes....

Seven things to be done before my death

1. Get Married.
2. Have Kids.
3. Be financially good.
4. Get a Degree.
5. Travel to the 7 wonders of the world =3
6. Ease my need of speed (drive a really really fast car! Till I’m satisfied)
7. Make my parents proud of me…

Seven things I will not do even if it kills me

1. endanger my loved ones..
2. hurt her
3. take poison
4. stop my ambitions
5. kill or endanger my pets
6. turn against my own family
7. going agains my closest friends

Seven things I do when I’m away from public

1. Sing~
2. be super blur
3. scratch my armpits!
4. eat excessive chocolate goodies (that is on availability of the chocolate)
5. bully my little doggy
6. Cry
7. be extra childish =)

Seven fav sentences/quotes/expressions

1. what the fuk
2. suck cock la (to la sallian closies)
3. hmmmm
4. hahahaha
5. =3
6. :P
7. arr

Seven songs

1. Kanye West - Stronger
2. Timbaland feat. One republic - Apologize
3. Enrique Iglesias – Addicted
4. Paparoach - Forever
5. Fat Joe – Make It Rain
6. Avril Lavigne – When You’re Gone
7. Linkin Park – What I’ve Done

Seven things I’ll make you wish you didn’t do if you did

1. Bully Her!
2. endanger my family (that includes threats)
3. Betray me
4. Boasting about yourself
5. do anything bad to my friends
6. Steal my lines
7. Copy what ever I do…(leaches)

Seven people to tag

1. Jia Chyi
2. Lyndy
3. Michael
4. Sonia Chin
5. Kimmie
6. Marcus
7. Anyone who wanna do it!

=3

-BeN-

Survey.. ps: more after my exams!

1. Grab your phone.

2.do you have a camera phone? if so
who's the 3rd picture?
= Yesh, Myself.. =/

3.what 's your ringtone?
= Stronger,KW.

4. Who's the first person who comes up
under the letter M?
= Mei Yi?

5. Who's the last person you called?
= Stephie.. eek.. late at night.. =3

6. Who was your last missed call from?
= Tom..

7. Who's the 3rd person who comes up
under C?
= Christopher Tan..

8. Who's your speed dial number 2?
= nope didn't place anyone there.. =3 all voice activated!

9. Who's the 3rd person who comes up
under J?
= Jasmeet

10. Maximum number of Sms'es kept?
= 1955

11. Number of games on your phone?
= 2

12. On your phone screen now, what do you see?
= my main page with my to-do list

13. How many numbers on the phone do you memorize?
= 7

14. Who's the most called SAME gender on your phone?
= Tom?

15. Who's the most Frightening number to recieve a call from?
= Dad!

16. What's the main purpose of your phone?
= Calls , and entertainer!

17. When you open your inbox, type out what the 1st sms says..
= okay ..... msg me when u want me 2 call ok? =3

18. Most used word/symbol/character on your phone?
= "hehehehe" and "=3"

19. How old is your phone?
= a few months?

20. What would you do, if you were to live a day without your phone?
= *drops on floor* *rolls around* runs to house phone and make calls =) that is if i need la... =3

=3 Just something to post =3

Giggles Of a PSYCHO DRIVER! well that's what they call me ...hahahaha

Hey everyone…

Well I’m here to update ya on my little trip to Melaka… =3

It was pretty fun as I was attending Steph’s Sister’s wedding

But well… I can’t really explain much on my blog… don’t really have the time..

So the pictures would do most of the work.. okay?

=3

Hahaha

Stephie and Ke Xin =3=)

Sandra,Jac, and Stephie =3

And Well... on the way back.. =3 hehe..


Jin jin
Me !
Stephie!
*snores!*

How open are you with your beloved?

Hey everyone! hahahaha
sorry for posting late...
i'm in my study mode...
and well... sometimes there're fun between here and there....
-laughs-

well before i start off my topic of today...
i'm going to just say...
EVERYONE! I GOT A CHATBOX THERE!
stop sending comment topic to my email... its alittle too full...hahahaha... just say it out at the chatbox so everyone got an opinion... =3

so well...

today's topic...

How open are you with your beloved?

I have read it at many places that why tell your beloved about your past? That may spoil your present. Let me present my thoughts to this. If we are not totally honest and open with our beloved, that means we are not sure about our relationship. That means that we do not have confidence in each other. That means that the relationship is fragile. Why talk about such relationship, which is still fragile. Such a relationship will break for some or other reason. A strong relationship can take any storm. In a strong relationship, we are ready for some disagreement but know that ultimately things will be same as before. It is like a child who has got totally scolded. Mother may scold the child but it will be same as before within half an hour. As like nothing has ever happened. That is a strong relationship. If you hide vital facts about your past from your sweetheart, you will always suffer from the guilt and worry about hat if he/she gets to know about that. That is not a happy Relationship. Such relationships cause stress, rather than giving any pleasure. To get pleasure, have confidence, tell your partner everything about your past, and expect that they will not only understand but also comfort you about that. That is the sign of a open and strong relationship. Any relationship that is not fully honest and open is like a leaking boat. Anytime water may get filled and the boat may sink. Go out there and do what's right! -BeN-

Tag tAg taG TAG!? =3

Rules:
1. The tag victim has to come up with 8 different points about his/her perfect lover.
2. Have to mention the gender of his/her perfect lover.
3. Tag eight other victims to join this game and leave a comment on their blog.
4. If you are tagged the second time, there is NO need to do this again.
5. Lastly, and most importantly, HAVE FUN DOING IT

HAHA =3
WELL... TAG again.. =3 this time by 3 people! okay... sorry for posting okay?
well to those who wanna know the 3 people whom tagged me are Stephanie.. =3
Jia Chyi and also Michael =3

so... let me see...
the gender of my perfect lover is obviously a girl... coz ...i'm just arr... not gay?
not in that happy kinda way... but u all get the idea...

anyway here goes... =3

*~ she must be sweet to everyone… especially me =3

*~ Appearance isn’t really a biggie but of cause there’s the occasional dress-up thing where she should be presentable… especially to d parents =3 –giggles-

*~ she has to be really fun to be with (laughs a lot!)

*~ She must really love being with kids!

*~ someone who is really caring =3 who cares about everything you do… =3 where ever you go too! =D

*~ someone understanding , she’s gotta understand what I feel at times..

*~ She must be cute cuddly but I’m not talking about some teddy bear okay? Hahaha! Just someone nice to hug =3

*~ someone who’s not too picky at things XD just being simple and easy wherever we go =3

*~ Finally , She’s got to love me for who I am… not what I am… to give the love she has so that I could give all of mine to her… =3

So... now i tag ..

1. Soh Yew Chong

2. Lyndy

3. Jin Rui

=3

-BeN-

Yesh i Bake!

Hey everyone!
yesh! exam stresses!
but look at the bright side...
i discovered i could make really good cookies! and not forgetting
the tempting Chocolate Cake!! ahahahaha!!!
oooo i'm like soooo hungry now...hahahaha

enjoy the pictures!

butter... the main thing u need in butter cookies! heehehe
the total mistake.!! hahaha...
they look so poofy...hehehe...
oooo!!! * drools!
the 2nd batch... the so called perfect ones... haha... really crunchy..
well what to do with extra doe... hmmm... make large cookie! hahaha!
watching it expand in the oven is like waiting for a time bomb to explode! hahahah!!

Chocolate Cake!!! hahahaha nice!!

Top 10 Terrorist! hahahaha!

hope you all like it... =3
It's simple yet Funny! found it off the net!

-BeN-

I'M HERE... FOR NOW... -laughs-

HEY EVERYONE!

Welcome back to my bloggie…

Its been long isn’t it….

Well in this post… I’ll just talk about what’s been happening…

And well… there would be photos as usual…

Before I start my typing.. I’ll just start off with the comments on my home email page… where I’ve been receiving a total of..arr….arrr…. 256 comments?!

Yesh yesh… I know I know..

Here are a few of them

“dude… blog…. Update”

“ arr ben? U still alive? *knocks head*”

“ you know its blardee unfair… u keep getting visits…”

“ dude… trials… study… but update also la!!”

Hahahaha fine everyone… but you all should kinda know that I can’t use the pc every single day as I’ve gotta study…!!! Its like SPM year? …

Hehe

I’ve devided most of the time that I’ve have to my own personal matters that is taking care of my girlfriend and also studying…

Nice combination right?

Well it is for me…

My life has been really good these few months…

Seeing that ALL my activities are over!

That means no clubs! No waste of time! And well.. alittle more personal time… finally… ahahahha… let me start the topic with last week… it was I think the 7^th? I’m confused btw… ahahaha… its was just amazing how ppl can just come up to you and go..

Guy: hey! U form 5 right?

Me : yea? Y?

Guy : HAAHAHAHA SPM TRIALS!

Me : u a okay?

Guy : laughs his ass off…

(kinda immature.. but it was really funny tho.. its like he’s been stuck in this cave… hahah and finally let loose)

So… hmmm.. on the eve of the examinations….

It made me to wonder… what in d world is coming out for my chemistry paper 1 & 2!?

*Yells* I need soalan bocor now!!!

Ahahahha… well I didn’t quite get it… but oh well… just had to do my best… or I could say… do what I could… hahahah…..

But it just seems such at the right timing that dad’s friend uncle george… just had to find a cool way to cheer me up! Ahahah… FONDUE!!!!

EEK!! *commentator: and the crowd roars!*

Yesh fruits with chocolate dipping!

And not forgetting more chocolate!

If I’m not mistaken it was Belgium chocolate!

It was not sweet nor bitter! It was just perfect…

the whole restaurant was crowding in! ahahaa staring at what we were eating….

Hahahah… =d

You could just imagine the childish looks on my face!

Its just like me seeing!...

M&M’S.. IN LIQUID FORM!! MUAHAHAHAHAH!

Well… that was the eve of my exams… and arrival at home was kinda cool as I had to follow dad’s friend’s son home

Yes it was unc george’s son.. andy!

In his kick ass BMW!

For some reason… I think I’m sooo gonna get one in the future when I got the money… hehehe… or maybe I’ll just mod the one I have now? Hahaha… nah….

Anyway…

0_0

Freak Out everyone!

Trials!!!

10 th of September!! Hahahahah

And wait!! Its also….

TOMMY’S BIRTHDAY!!! AHAHHAHA

Well… speaking about unluckyness…

As a normal tradition in La Salle… the student would get bashed up…. LIKE NORMAL… ahahahahah

But if you think that’s bad,,,,

Here’s a list of bad luck thing’s that happen on his birthday…hahaha

(sorry tom I’ve just gotta tell)

1. exam was devastating for him!
2. although he had forgotten all about him getting selected for the NS…

TEACHER REMINDED HIM WITH THE APPLICATION FORM!! MUAHAHAHAH!

3. he got smacked hard…
4. he was sleepy on an exam day!
5. seeing that frown on his birthday… it was like this =(

well… hmmm… I still owe him(tommy) a cake as I still owe kok hooi and , Ben (ps: not me) … well all you have to do is dial Benjamin Tan’s number on ur phone to redeem your free ride and cake! hahahaha

remember all you have to do it dial Benjamin Tan!

Terms and Conditions apply..

Ahahaha well… I’ve also gotta be free right… hahaha….

Moving on.. well.. 1^st day of trials has not been that good… but surprisingly the next 4 day’s were really great!

Although I had to find out the hard way that I’ve done massive careless mistakes through it all its kinda okay… I guess… 2 or 3’s fine…. J

So let me see… what other amazing things that happened these few days that I can remember… hmmmm…..

Ah… today… almost got into an accident… by my friends mother’s car! Eesh!! Darn! Sometimes it’s the ppl without the "P" that should get off the road!... its like no signal… turn out…. Moving out on the incoming car lane…. Hahaha… damn… if she did hit me… well… I think I’ll have another change of my front bumper… its like…cool… coz… for some reason… if I ever get in to accidents… it rarely my fault… coz… as everyone (most un-rasuah-ed police) say… always follow the road rules… and well you’ll always win…

This does bring back memories of that dumb ass that hit me and blame me… but well… it all changed when the police came… imagine a guy putting his toe in his mouth.. well… that’s all about what he was…hahaha….

Anyway… I’m now at home… being bombarded by these spiritual ppl… where they are kinda telling me I must do this do that… do this…. Yada yada… honestly… I rarely pay attention to life… and if all you folks out there wanna know… what ever they tell you… if you analyse it nicely…

It would sound like this

BE GOOD IN LIFE…

*tiss tiss*…

This is what I’ve concluded after reading 300 pages of phycology…

Its their very scheme of marketing of trying to ask us to buy their products… and well…

Its seriously not working… your method is too old….

Don’t commit crime… don’t this …don’t that….all of them in the end just means..

BE GOOD IN LIFE…

So to whom are reading this… well do tell your parents … explain to them how I just did to you….

And seriously don’t waste money on these things unless you’ve got abundance of it… and you are really bored our of ur mind….

Anyway… can’t really chat no more… after hearing those ppl talk… I’m kinda outta the mood to do anything….

So do take care everyone… and here are the photos you’re waiting for… J

Seeya next time

-BeN-

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A Gift from Darlin Stephie.. =3














packed! hahaha












Speaking of Chile abuse... sometimes you've gotta conclude it doesn't always go that way... hahah












sleep boy sleep...hahaha












Fondue!!













Kim-kim ... heng heng... and me me...














Valerie's baby =3 cute isn't he.. =D














nothing's really changed since the day i got there..














say ahhhhh












How often do u see the moon huh? =3














=3

~ LiFe SiTuAtIoNs ~

LIFE SITUATIONS

1. IF you were to find out you
pregnant/impregnate someone right now
what would you do?
~* hmmm!? what... i seriously doubt that
would happen...

2. Do you trust your friends?
~* not many... coz its just me... i only
trust very few...

3. Would you move to another state?
~* NO!

4. Do you believe that everything
happens for a reason?
~* yes? coz there's practically a reason
for everything in life... :)

5. Name one thing you would not
tolerate well in a relationship.
~* being really bitchy... i'm soo lucky
she isn't.. =3

6. Which of your friends do you think
would make the best roommate for you?
~* roommate? damn.... no idea...

7. Do you think he/she loves you?
~* i know she loves me... :)

8. Are you afraid of falling in love?
~* Not at all.. =)

9. Is there someone who pops into your
mind at random times?
~* yesh =3 every time...

10. Would you stop talking to your
friends because you hooked up with a
new guy/girl?
~* nope.. but ppl say i stop talking to
them... but its just that i'm really
busy... i rarely forget my friends... =/

11. Do you delete people on myspace
when you're mad at them?
~* i don't have myspace! but if u wanna
link them up with friendster... no i
don't delete ppl if i'm mad at them... i
only delete them if i don't know them..

12. From your friends list, who can
you call in the middle of the night?
~* hmm, steph.. =) but she'll be really
frustrated for sure..hehe -pokes-

14. Fill in the blank. I will ...
~* study as much as i can today despite
the temptations that surround me!

15. What are your goals in life?
~* too many ... eek =d

16. Things you would nvr say to brush
ppl off unless he/she pisses u off a big
time..
~* face 2 face : F*CK OFF
internet : "delete" and never add again..
phone : -click-

17. Would you make a good parent?
~* hahaha well... i don't know.. i'll
let the future decide on that.. :)

18. Where was your default pic taken?
~* One utama's Mph.. xD

19. What is your middle name?
~* Chung Young

20. Hotmail or AOL?
~* Hotmail.. =0

21.What's on your mind right now?
~* taking nap!

22. When is the perfect date for you?
~* every date is perfect.. :)

23. Ever had a heartbreak?
*~ yeap..

24. Do you wear contact lenses or
Glasses.
*~ both but the glasses are sorta out of
the way most of the time..hehe

25. What was your dream about last
night?
*~ hmmm...*censored* maximum brutality!

Why do we have Emotions?

Hey Everyone..

well today's post would be about Emotions...

We as human beings have a body and a mind.
With the body, we move around and do work.
With the mind, we think, and experience emotions.
Imagine of a human being with no emotions whatsoever.

Only a thinking machine who reacts to nothing emotional but makes scientific analysis.
Imagine telling a joke to him/her.
They will not laugh at it, but either ignore it or analyze the joke. *it would seem stupid then wouldn't it*

They make life difficult for those around them. After all what is a person without any emotions?

Why do we have emotions at all?
Your computer on which you are sitting right now is a perfect machine to analyze, think and give results. It has no emotions.
It is only an intelligent machine.

Why are human beings not like that? Would life be better if we had no emotions? We would lose all the charm of living if there was no trace of any emotion in any of us. Let us take some situations. A death - people gather, complete the ceremonies and depart.

No wet eyes, no remembering the dead soul, no sense of loss. The law of nature is simple. One who is born has to die.

So only intelligent understanding of that but no feeling of loss. Can you visualize the scene?
Love, what is Love, if not an emotion?
So there will be no love.
People will meet, produce children and get away from each other.
No love, no romance.

What about family? They may have a family for the children to grow up.
Then the family will get separated through life itself children growing up and moving on....

Coming to achievements, discoveries and inventions.

Why will a person without any emotions, feel good by achievements or get excited with discoveries?
So nothing great. Only minimum existence needs to be met.

It is the time for us now in this discussion to imagine of everything we do in life. Practically all our actions are governed by emotions. Imagine a person winning an Olympics gold medal and walking away without any expression! Think of more situations and you will realize the role of emotions in life.

We have emotions, because we are not low-level animals.
Because even dogs and cats have emotions.

We have emotions because they make us enjoy life.

They make us perform great things and they make us human.

Love Life at it is... Don't go out finding the way to discover it... Let it Discover You...
The True You..

-BeN-

How to negotiate in Relationships! FOR GUYS ONLY!!

Hey everyone.... well... finally my latest post..
but before i begin....
I'm sorry to say this but arr...
GIRLS...
do u all see the button that says "back"? hehe... okay... click! hehehe..
coz today's post is mainly for guys.. but if you feel like reading go ahead...
i'm not stopping ya... enjoy okay?

well... I'm here now to talk about Negotiation...

Well negotiation is part of every day life. To negotiate means to arrive at an understanding with another person, so that both are happy and contented with the results. If you believe that negotiation is only part of professional life, you need to take a look at your personal relationship. Do you not negotiate with your partner about where to spend holidays, which house to buy, and every such thing? Learn more about negotiation to make your relationships stronger.

TOPIC ONE:-
Needs of your partner-

A good negotiator would begin with understanding the need of the opposite party.
Sometimes we believe that we know what our partner desires. But that is not true.
Unless you probe you will not know what are the latent desires that your partner wants to fulfill.
For example ,your partner may be thinking of going on holidays not only to relax but also to be more with you.
f you choose to go on holidays with other friends that will not make your partner happy. You need to go alone with your partner to satisfy the desires of being with you. Therefore understand the need first.

TOPIC TWO:-
Spell out your needs-

Let your partner know very clearly about what you are looking for in any given situation.
I have seen a relationship breaking because the man never told the woman that he would want alittle more out of it. The girl leaving his thoughts untrimmed. This ultimately turned the relationship in an unending roller coaster!
Had the he has spelled out his needs clearly this would not have happened. Therefore do understand what u should tell and what u might need... but ALWAYS, have boundaries!

TOPIC THREE:-
Reach Understanding -

If both of you modulate your needs so that there is a common ground there are no reasons of friction. If both of you want a result without hurting the relationship, flexible approach is a primary requirement. Otherwise, one of you will walk away. Your skill as a negotiator depends upon satisfying you and your partner.

Hmmm i think all of you readers could conclude it yourself right?
so guys.. show out what u mean in your relationship... and understand what it's all about.. =3

-Ben-

Tag Tag Tag! XD

Hey hey everyone! hahaha well
today's post is gonna be about...
TAG....! not again!

hahaha
and this time its from none other than Shennie =3
*muacks*

well oh well...

lets see here...

i'm suppose 2 list out 32 things starting wit I's..

1. ~ I feel like speeding on the highway to a secret destination..

~ I think i'm getting sick these few days...

~ I miss her alot....

~ I should start studying for my exams..

~ It would be wonderful to be under the rain with the person u love..

~ I've been wondering is there ever a time in the future where we would all be having unlimited free phone calls...

~ I wanna go to paris...

~ I don't wanna go to school...

~ I found out that if u put a certain thought in your mind before you sleep you would end up dreaming of it!

~ I love my life now...

11. ~ If everyone is fair in life... life would be sometimes pointless...

~ I realize that love comes in many ways... sometimes the ones you love are right infront of you all the while... and sometimes u meet them along the way.. =3

~ Its common for people to forget things so don't get all angry about it.. =)

~ I wanna get the feeling of being free

~ I want a new pair of white clothings

~ I wish all the white clothes i have don't get abducted! eek!

~ I know that through the eyes of another person their true character can be discovered...

~ I wondered why sometimes girls are really curious ppl (going to ask shen about it hehe..)

~ I know that sometimes people bleed inside..

~ I love my life now...

21. ~ I wish i could spend more time with her...

~ It's weird since i stepped down from my posts in school i've been releasing my anger at anyone whom's not fair...

~ I've not been giving advices to alot of people lately ... coz... they've not been asking! hahaha!

~ I wanna watch more movies...

~ I wish some of my dreams are realities...

~ I enjoy doing community service

~ I wonders sometimes if i could have a chance to go on a really long holiday with her...

~ I can't believe that my dog lucky is really lazy! hahaha!

~ I'm planning to get a can of coke tomorrow... weird huh? coz i don't drink coke as much as i used to...hahahaha

~ I'm trying to control my self from eating dragon fruits... eek...

31.~ I wonder what's she doing now...

~ It's interesting that my sis got a new car for her self...

hey!? seriously 32 is really simple i tell ya...hahaha
so i guess i'll have to tag 3 more people.. hmmm... who should i tag...

1. Jia Chyi!
2. Soh Yew Chong!
3. U-Mae!

well...sorry... i seriously have no idea how i chosed u all...
it was totally random! *closed eye and poke*
hahaha

seeya everyone!

-Ben-

Loyalty....

Loyalty loyalty….

These are the worlds which brought me up in school….

And in the end…they tore me apart….

A few days with a slight conflict… that involved money…

All my class could not fight against was the world loyalty…

Having been said to that if we don’t pay up our money for the school’s magazine we’re not supporting the school thus we are not loyal for the past 5 years!

The topic was “Applying for the school’s Magazine Page”

The problem was that no one was willing to complete the page

Our Decition was “ forget the page lah…”

The Final Solution forced to do it anyway…

Teacher : T

Me : B

Greg : G

Other students : S

Our conversation went:

T : ALL OF U ARE A DISGRACE! For all the school have done for you ,you give nothing back!?

S : This is so last minute! What do u expect us to do?!

S: Yea! None of us wants to complete the page!

S : whats the point of us paying for the page then?

T : all of u are Un LOYAL!

S : *grumbles*

B : Speaking of loyalty….

T : (interrupts) all of u don’t know what the school has done for you?!

-in our minds we were all thinking… what has the school done for us!? Oooh! Yes yes yes… I remember… car parking for teachers.. more air conditioning for the teacher room… and not forgetting all the flowers and crap-

-these are the things we all don’t need in a school!

All we really need are teachers who actually play their part…

And do YOU know what their part is?!

TEACHING US!!!

In my class among all the teacher that teaches my class… I could only say that 3 teachers are doing their part… but the others are either absent… or just plain boring us with their stories…..

Yes yes…I agree that sometimes teachers are ment to be like that… but at least learn the ways which we would be able to enjoy learning in…

S: a lot of us don’t want to pay…

T : if all of u don’t pay… the principle will do something to you…

S : *something*? *thinks*

B : (telling to greg) I’ve been in this school working with it for the past 5 years… and I know… the school can’t do anything to us…

G : hmmm

S: haih….

T: *points at me* what have you done to the school ?! but telling everyone that..

B : (angry) I’VE GIVEN SO MUCH FOR THE SCHOOL WHAT HAS IT GIVEN BACK TO ME?! I BROUGHT MY SELF UP… and the school did not help me….

S : True.. he brought the school up with him… not the other way…

T : *tries hard to change topic* if you all do thing’s while expecting something back you will always end up disappointed.

Well… teacher started ignoring all the comments and left class…so much for our lesson time….

Well I did not expect anything back… but all I wanted is a mere simple lesson of respect… that’s all I ever wanted…

Seeing after the moment I started to step down from my positions… seeing the school itself making bad decisions… for one of the fact were the colours… although I wanted it but did not get it… I didn’t really mind having received other awards already….

But for the fact of some other students that deserved it..

like Kok Hooi… which I’ve seen giving a lot for the school with his services…

and also Koh Keik Wee and Abdullah whom deserved a better award than the one they received..

and for the ton’s of applications in the list …whom too also deserved at least some gratitude...

but with all of this …

the school gave one word and rejected the others… Loyalty… I felt crushed…

if the loyal student’s that worked with me did not do it for the school…

it brings out a question….

WHAT IS LOYALTY NOW?

I thank my fellow friends for being with me all the way showing what our school’s true spirit really is… having a strong ground to stand above all and keeping the school’s true spirit going….

After our year ends… when the seniors go...all I know is that a mere 10 – 20 students out of the hundreds… only know the true meaning of La Salle which brings out the true meaning of Loyalty…

Serve….

-Ben-

Tortures For Flies 15

Hey everyone... well there was charlie...
Now its time for
"tortures for Flies! 15!"

enjoy!!


Tortures For Flies 15: Man Power - Funny video clips are a click away

*whistle*

hey everyone...

i know... i've got so many complaints on not updating...hahaha
but thanks tho for always viewing my blog...

hmmm... come on everyone give me a topic to type about! hahahaha!

ps: i'm just enjoying life

-Ben-