Monday, April 21, 2008

A perfect gentleman you wonder?

Hey everyone!
Well... this topic has been requested for quite awhile...
I didn't quite know what to type about it so...
I made my little research as usual and here it is...

ps: this post is "practically for single guys"
but if you're just curious to read.. read away... =3

Requested by : 16 people.. (11 guys 5 girls)

Are you a perfect gentleman?

Someone every woman can treat as a friend?

Someone who is very attentive to others,

behaves perfectly,

has the best values and integrity and is honest to the core?

You can face problems from a different breed of males
who are confident looking,
don't care much about others,
act macho and can attract women romantically.

Some women may treat you as a friend and
the macho ones as romantic lovers.

Have you had this experience of losing to such males?
Here is what you can do about that.
Let us first be very clear that you cannot change yourself,
nor it is desirable.

You are a perfect guy,
and a woman must understand that she should prefer you
to the macho variety that may dump her when
anyone better comes across.

But you cannot tell a woman about this,
and that is the problem.

*sorry ladies..... its a guy thing...*

You want to win her attention
but you find that she is getting into a relationship with a macho.

What will you do?
To begin with, make sure that the woman is whom
you want for a long-term relationship.

Assess her properly.
If you find her right,
it is time to act little smarter and win her over.
You surely can act a little assertive and more decisive.
Take the lead in taking her places for the date.
Have the CHARACTER...
Don't ask her about where she would like to go.
(ps: That does depend on the type of person you’re planning to go out with)

Take your own decision and tell her nicely but assertively

How about going for the movie?

Or how about dining in that restaurant and then a movie?

Be attentive to her needs, but assert your presence.

Don’t act like a Mama's boy all the time.

Certain guys normally talk a lot,
and don't listen to others.
Here is where you would have an advantage,
this it because you are a good listener.
Women would generally love to have a guy understanding their needs.
Over a period of time , she will also understand that you are a
much more reliable person compared to the others.
But always remember it doesn't hurt
at all if you are able to have the perfect balance between talking and being a listener.

Act intelligently, and show that you are smart
but don't necessarily ride your advantage all the way through.
After all this, if the woman cannot differentiate
between you and the enchanting male,
it would be a good time to move on.
As placing too much effort in it would ruin yourself.

But if she understands what is best ,
and if you are doing what is right with honesty,
she WILL realize your value soon.

If you really want a partner have faith ,
always be honest , and don't give up


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